tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post1003341845731192179..comments2024-01-11T05:51:43.225-08:00Comments on Yoon's Blur: horizonMilahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14088039434355591753noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-50261830117382767532009-05-16T08:10:00.000-07:002009-05-16T08:10:00.000-07:00Wow, Mei-Ling...June 3rd! Woah. You're going to bl...Wow, Mei-Ling...June 3rd! Woah. You're going to blink your eyes and you'll be there...<br /><br />Sheri!!! Yay! Thank you for your encouraging words...I know you understand! 5 more weeks...! I'm trying to keep it together, but I definitely am beginning to feel the "crunch."Milahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14088039434355591753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-53456332765659670652009-05-15T19:52:00.000-07:002009-05-15T19:52:00.000-07:00OMG - this is SO PERFECT! I understand exactly abo...OMG - this is SO PERFECT! I understand exactly about the 'wholeness,' and the journey. One thing I have found lately is that since the search is over, it is a new beginning. But yet, nothing seems as monumental as the search and the reunion.<br /><br />I hope you can cherish it, and live it, and allow yourself to feel. for it is an amazing and precious, untouchable journey that only we can navigate, and only we can endure. <br /><br />It doesn't "fix" everything, but i hope it will give you a feeling of satisfaction, or at least a new sense of peace within you.<br /><br />thinking of you, and i'm here!sherinalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08382751889192685628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-14489523908587134552009-05-13T18:21:00.000-07:002009-05-13T18:21:00.000-07:00Yeah, mine's on June 3rd. Scary feeling.
I rememb...Yeah, mine's on June 3rd. Scary feeling.<br /><br />I remember when I hit the 6 week landmark - I kept saying "eh, I still have over a month."<br /><br />Um, a month will FLY by! XD<br /><br />Keeping you close by in my prayers! ^_^Mei-Linghttp://littlewing04.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-33709649553743094092009-05-13T14:27:00.000-07:002009-05-13T14:27:00.000-07:00Mia & Mei-Ling, as always thank you for your i...Mia & Mei-Ling, as always thank you for your insightful comments and support :) This certainly is quite the adventure!<br /><br />Mei-Ling, I have six weeks (or 5 1/2 weeks, to be exact) before the big trip! Your trip is right around the corner, though, isn't it?! I find myself saying feeling a bit dazed & confused these day...but that's to be expected, I suppose...Milahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14088039434355591753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-60328767923863024002009-05-13T12:29:00.000-07:002009-05-13T12:29:00.000-07:00Oftentimes I think the problem is that even though...Oftentimes I think the problem is that even though you DO get to go into reunion, you are still affected by what happened in the past despite the opportunities you receive in the future.<br /><br />You were adopted - so you don't really speak Korean, which will inevitably impact your reunion with your Korean parents. Yes, you are lucky you get to reunite, but the language aspect does have a tremendous impact on your reunion and that has to do with your past of being adopted...<br /><br />How many more weeks do you have left until you depart for Korea?Mei-Linghttp://littlewing04.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-90669032192847290382009-05-12T05:49:00.000-07:002009-05-12T05:49:00.000-07:00I can understand the longing and hope for the reun...I can understand the longing and hope for the reunion to bring healing and get you closure and make everything okay. I think that's very natural.<br /><br />However, my point of view is also that getting the answers from your birth parents and getting a better understanding of the circumstances doesn't erase what happened. It doesn't necessarily heal all the wounds. In fact I'd find it wierd if it did..!<br /><br />So I think it's good to be realistic about it and even though you may have arrived, your past still happened. Meeting birth family might be a very helpful tool in the healing process, but it's not a cure.<br /><br />You know I'm very focused on post re-union and that is the long haul. So I think that even though your parents have been found, it's not strange at all that you're still in turmoil. You haven't even met them yet so almost all of your questions still needs answers.<br /><br />I imagine it'll be a while before the tears stop and the nerves get under control...:)<br /><br />I'm here if you need me..Mia_h_nnoreply@blogger.com