tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post8001453583637929885..comments2024-01-11T05:51:43.225-08:00Comments on Yoon's Blur: hole in the SkyMilahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14088039434355591753noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-10189250944935026432010-01-30T14:00:29.110-08:002010-01-30T14:00:29.110-08:00Reading this post I'm transported back a year ...Reading this post I'm transported back a year ago...remember my "hairball"? ;) <br /><br />The way you have helped me find my way, I have no doubt you'll be able to do the same for yourself. You just have to give yourself permission - to feel and think and react so you can grow and heal and accept.<br />And it's OK to take it one day (or minute) at a time. And to be completely lost and confused.<br /><br />Like Sheri said, I'm thinking of you.Mia_h_nnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-32804639484618492672010-01-28T12:47:40.118-08:002010-01-28T12:47:40.118-08:00Thanks, Sheri...we probably do need to talk soon.....Thanks, Sheri...we probably do need to talk soon...I'll be fine, though. My posts are always pretty extreme. But I'm not as extremely crazy as the posts make me sound...believe it or not...<br /><br />And thank you, JR. Things have definitely entered into a different phase. All the sheen has rubbed off, and the reality of the complex situation is setting in...and what's all the more frustrating is how FEW people actually get it. It's incredible. Such a lack of understanding, awareness, compassion for the not-so-happy side of the adoptee experience. <br /><br />Folks are so quick to condemn and judge my emotions...Milahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14088039434355591753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-21662601893303839542010-01-27T18:56:33.586-08:002010-01-27T18:56:33.586-08:00I'm thinking of you too, sending virtual hugs ...I'm thinking of you too, sending virtual hugs across the internet. <br /><br />JRUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00400527885892135466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-33470540475002757652010-01-27T18:29:46.834-08:002010-01-27T18:29:46.834-08:00HI Melissa - don't worry. It is so hard for us...HI Melissa - don't worry. It is so hard for us to just let ourselves FEEL and PROCESS HOW we feel, and WHAT we feel... I know it really sucks, and it's those feelings that have no words, but I promise, you will find words to use that explain the feelings...<br /><br />eventually. i hope you are not too hard on yourself - it is a difficult process, and you are only at the beginning... i give you so much credit for being brave enough to endure this journey!<br /><br />i'm always here if you need to talk. but your words resonate instant empathy for me. <br /><br />thinking of you!!!sherinalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08382751889192685628noreply@blogger.com