tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post9052521300739697927..comments2024-01-11T05:51:43.225-08:00Comments on Yoon's Blur: I'll grow up to be just like Mommy, right?Milahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14088039434355591753noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-28166714514936226512011-04-09T14:04:46.094-07:002011-04-09T14:04:46.094-07:00Thank you Melissa, I was asking. Having your opin...Thank you Melissa, I was asking. Having your opinion means a lot to me.mrkmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09180567143667720074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-22871225446919840912011-04-08T07:08:30.361-07:002011-04-08T07:08:30.361-07:00mrkmommy-- it's true that the racial issues ar...mrkmommy-- it's true that the racial issues are not going to be mitigated by you dying your hair...but just the act of dying your hair demonstrates, in my small opinion, a willingness to try to relate to your oldest daughter, particularly because she specifically asked you to do it.<br /><br />If she hadn't made the request, then it would seem negligible, but the fact that she actually requested you to do so, means something--well, I think it does. Obviously, it's your decision and you know your daughter better than I do...that's just my two cents, whether you were asking for it or not. ;)Milahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14088039434355591753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1068702647356713810.post-90813258035444472642011-04-07T14:03:48.744-07:002011-04-07T14:03:48.744-07:00Recently while I was searching for my normal gray ...Recently while I was searching for my normal gray covering dye, my oldest daughter asked me to pick the color black for my hair. It surprised me a bit because her little sister has been more about matching everything, clothes, skin, etc. Also, even though my husband isn't Chinese he is is Latino so he has very dark eyes and black hair. <br /><br />But it got me to thinking and I am wondering whether or not I should do it. It seems like a simple thing but the underlying issues of being a different race are not going away with simply matching hair color.mrkmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09180567143667720074noreply@blogger.com